Christmas is supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year. At least, that’s what the songs tell us. Twinkling lights, warm gatherings, and that cozy, magical feeling of togetherness. But lately, it feels like the season has a darker side—one filled with short tempers, honking horns, and an overall sense of hurry.
A Season of Cheer… or Stress?
Take the roads, for example. This past week, I’ve seen more impatient drivers than usual. The kind who flash their high beams the second the light turns green or speed around as if being first to the next red light is some kind of victory. And it’s not just the roads—clients at the garage seem shorter with their words too. A simple suggestion about maintenance turns into an argument, or a delay in parts delivery becomes a reason to leave a bad review on Google.
Even at home, the vibe feels different. Family gatherings, which should be moments of warmth, sometimes feel more like a race to check off traditions. Everyone is busy, stressed, or just… grumpy.
The Pressure of the Holidays
I’ve been thinking about why this happens. Why, during a season that’s supposed to bring joy, does everyone seem so on edge? Maybe it’s the pressure. The pressure to make everything perfect. The pressure to buy the right gifts, cook the right meals, and balance work, family, and holiday obligations all at once.
And let’s not forget the financial strain. For some, the holidays are a reminder of what’s missing, whether it’s money, time, or even people. It’s hard to feel cheerful when everything around you seems to demand more than you can give.
A Gentle Reminder
I get it. I feel the pressure too. But maybe we all need a reminder that the holidays don’t have to be perfect. They don’t have to look like a Hallmark movie. The magic of the season isn’t in how much we spend or how many traditions we tick off a list. It’s in the little things—the laugh you share with a friend, the warm drink you sip after a long day, the effort you make to show up, even when it’s hard.
So, the next time someone flashes their high beams at me, or a client at the garage seems a little too upset about their oil change, I’m going to try something different. Instead of letting it ruin my day, I’ll remind myself that they’re probably just feeling the same holiday stress as everyone else—including me.
Let’s Be Kinder This Season
The holidays are hard enough without the added tension. So here’s a challenge for all of us (myself included): let’s slow down. Let’s be kinder to each other. Whether it’s letting someone merge in traffic, thanking a tired cashier, or simply taking a breath before reacting, these small moments of grace can make the season a little lighter—for everyone.
Because in the end, Christmas isn’t about the stress or the rush. It’s about connection. And we could all use a little more of that this year.
What about you? Have you noticed the holiday grump? Let me know—I promise I won’t flash my high beams. 😊
